Moving my blog...

Ok, blogger just isnt as much fun anymore, so I've moved my blog (Well, if you want to call it a blog) over to Myspace . It just has way more bells and whistles.

So bookmark that link if you still want to be connected to me.

Love Ya's
NiK

Who your true friends are

I guess its a fact of life. When you break up with someone that you have dated for a LONG time, it is at that point and time that you find out who your true friends are.

You date someone for 9 years. YOU introduce this person to a group of people. You become friends with the same group for at least 6 of those 9 years. You do EVERYTHING with that group and I mean EVERYTHING.

6 years later you find yourself no longer with the person you were dating/living with while becoming such great friends with this group. The group that you thought were your friends suddenly stop calling you, asking you to hang out etc etc.

When He and I first broke up, the one thing I didnt think I would lose,out of everything else Ive lost due to this break-up, would be my friendship with this group. I never thought in a million years that I would become the outcast.

Apparently, I was wrong, thats what I get for thinking.

Its amazing how people can take sides so quickly and believe everything the other person is/has been telling them.

It amazes me that it can be thought that he had no fault whatsoever in this break-up. That Im the reason for this happening. I am completely at fault, to blame. That he is perfect (Which he even admitted to me that he thinks he is).

It amazes me that these people are being told things that are completely untrue, however, since he is telling them, theyre taking it as gospel.

This hurts so much and makes me cry often, but...the one thing I have found out of this realization, is that there is ONE person, out of the whole group, who is truly my friend.... And for that I want to thank her. I know she knows who she is.

A bit of advice to everyone out there that are friends with a couple that are going through a breakup: There is 2 sides to every story. Don't judge until you've heard both sides and know all the facts. Don't take sides. If you were true friends before, you should still be true friends after.

That's all I have to say about that.